Ashley Wray Ashley Wray

Accommodation Fatigue: Do You Relate?

If you support someone with severe anxiety or OCD, you may feel exhausted, frustrated, and unsure how to help anymore. You’re not alone. This post normalizes accommodation fatigue and offers compassionate guidance for supporting your loved one without reinforcing anxiety.

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Ashley Wray Ashley Wray

New Year, New You? Why Every New Day Is an Opportunity for Change

New Year’s resolutions often come with pressure and disappointment. This post invites a different approach—one rooted in values, self-compassion, and taking action on imperfect days. Learn how anxiety keeps us waiting and how meaningful change can happen any day of the year.

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Ashley Wray Ashley Wray

Avoidance Blockers: Breaking the Cycle of Avoidant Behaviors

Avoidance is one of the biggest barriers to progress in anxiety and OCD treatment. Learn how avoidance works, why it keeps anxiety alive, and get ERP-based strategies called “Avoidance Blockers” that help you break the cycle and reconnect with your values.

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Ashley Wray Ashley Wray

“Holiday Stress with OCD and Anxiety: Why It Feels So Overwhelming”

Holiday stress often magnifies anxiety and OCD symptoms, from intrusive thoughts to panic and perfectionism. In this post, I share insights from over 10 years of treating anxiety disorders using ERP and ACT to help you understand why the holidays can feel so hard—and what steps can help you cope more effectively.

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